Apna Dal, an alliance partner of the BJP in UP, has blamed the BJP leadership for not showing respect to the ruling party allies and said the party should learn lessons from its defeat in the recent assembly polls. BJP central leadership should hear its allies in UP. Leaders and workers of all three NDA members in UP BJP, Apna Dal and Suheldev Bharatiya Samaj Party are a frustrated lot. BJP UP leadership must improve its relations with the two allies, says Ashish Patel, working president of Apna Dal.